Ungasithuthukisa kanjani isivinini sokuxazulula inkinga kwesithando sokushisa esingeniswayo?

Uma kunenkinga nge- isithando sokushisa sangaphakathi, ukuqeda ngokuphelele iphutha, kuyadingeka ukwazi isizathu sokuhluleka kwesithando sokushisa sokungeniswa, futhi uthole ngokushesha isizathu sokuhluleka kwesithando sokushisa sokushisa. Hlaziya futhi uchaze izizathu zokuhluleka kwesithando sokushisa sokungeniswa, okungukuthi, “yazi iqiniso, kodwa futhi wazi isizathu”, qondisa ukusebenza kwakho ngombono, futhi usebenzise ngokuguquguqukayo izindlela ezihlukahlukene zokuqeda ukwehluleka kwesithando sokushisa sokungenisa.

1. Kumele abe nolwazi oluthile lwethiyori oluchwepheshile lokushisisa isithando sokufakelwa. Izimo eziningi ezingamaphutha zeziko lokushisisa lokungeniswa zingaqondwa ngempela futhi ziqondwe ngolwazi oluphambili lwethiyori. Uma kuqhathaniswa nezinye izinhlobo zomsebenzi, ochwepheshe bakagesi bokulungisa isithando somlilo wokungeniswa banengqondo kakhulu. Kwesinye isikhathi, ngaphandle kokuqondiswa kwethiyori yesithando somlilo sokungeniswa, imisebenzi eminingi ayikwazi ukwenziwa nhlobo. Emsebenzini wangempela, isikhathi sokuxoxisana sivame ukuba side kunesikhathi somsebenzi owenziwa ngezandla. Uma iphuzu lephutha lesithando sokushisa lokungeniswa litholakala, ukulungisa kulula.

2. Ukuqonda indlela yokunyakaza ye- isithando sokushisa sangaphakathi, ukuqonda kanye nokuqonda isimiso sokusebenza sikagesi sesithando sokushisa sokungeniswa kanye nezici zokulawula ugesi zesithando sokushisa sokungeniswa kuyizisekelo ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuxazulula inkinga yesithando sokushisa esingeniswayo. Yazi okuqukethwe okuyinhloko kwesistimu yokulawula isithando somlilo sokungeniswa kanye nobuchwepheshe bokulawula ugesi, futhi uqonde ukujwayelekile kwayo, ukuqonda okuphelele nokuba yinkimbinkimbi. Lapho uhlelo lwesithando somlilo sokungeniswa luhluleka, lungathathwa kwamanye amaqiniso futhi lwedlule isifaniso.

3. Kuyadingeka futhi ukuqonda izikhundla ezithile zezingxenye zikagesi esithandweni sokushisa sokungeniswa kanye nokuhlelwa kwemigqa, nokuqaphela ukuxhumana okukodwa phakathi komdwebo wohlelo lukagesi kanye ne-wiring yangempela kuyisisekelo ukuthuthukisa ijubane lokuxazulula inkinga le isithando sokushisa sangaphakathi. Ngokwenza lokhu, ungaba nokuqonda okwengeziwe kwesithando sokushisa sokungeniswa, futhi lapho uxazulula izinkinga nokulinganisa, ungakhetha indawo yokuhlola ephumelelayo ukuze uvimbele ukwahlulela okungalungile, ukuze wahlulele ngokushesha futhi unciphise ububanzi bephutha.